Fiuhh.. what a day. With all those looonnngggg "to do" list, super hot weather outside, deficit condition that unable me to visit Spa (sigh) and threaten by bad beneficiaries, my day seems so devastating. But now I tell you- Alhamdulillah ya Rabb- it's not, not anymore! Instead, I feel more than just okay, I am calm, super fine, healthy and can't stop smiling. Friends said I act like woman in love. Hahaha.. am I?
Actually love should not be the only reason why people think they deserve to be happy. Allah creates us with bunch of reason to be happy. Life is hard, nobody would say it's easy, but see? with free oxygen available all the time, beautiful blue sky, amazing friends and family and Allah as super trusted place to share everything you face and feel, do you think you still have reason to complain about your life?
Life is a wonderful journey. There's no journey without problem, obstacles, happiness, sadness, wonderful moments and devastating moment, because life is so dynamic.Everything comes in pairs, and so obstacles, it always come with solution, it's only about if you dare enough, to do whatever it takes to look for it. Allah said in the holly Qur'an:
Bismillahirrahmanirrahim..
لاَ يُكَلِّفُ اللّٰهُ نَفْسًا اِلاَّ وُسْعَهَا لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا اكْتَسَبَتْ رَبَّنَا لاَ تُؤَاخِذْنَاۤ اِنْ نَّسِيْنَاۤ اَوْ اَخْطَاْنَاۚ رَبَّنَا وَلاَ تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْنَاۤ اِصْرًا كَمَا حَمَلْتَه عَلَى الَّذِيْنَ مِنْ قَبْلِنَاۚرَبَّنَا وَلاَ تُحَمِّلْنَا مَا لاَ طَاقَةَ لَنَا بِه ۚ وَاعْفُ عَنَّا وَاغْفِرْ لَنَا وَارْحَمْنَا اَنْتَ مَوْلٰنَا فَانصُرْنَا عَلَى الْقَوْمِ الْكٰفِرِيْنَ
Allah burdens not any soul beyond its capacity. It shall have the reward it earns, and it shall get the punishment
it incurs. Our Lord, do not punish us, if we forget or fall into error;
and our Lord, lay not on us a responsibility as Thou didst lay upon
those before us. Our Lord, burden us not with what we have not the
strength to bear; and efface our sins, and grant us forgiveness and have mercy on us; Thou art our Master; so help us Thou against the disbelieving people (Al Baqarah 287).
For those who believe in what Allah has promised, solution may take several time, it may break your heart a little bit and may require little tears to fall, but Allah's relief is so close, for those who ask. Obstacle appears as an exam, to test whether you're mature and ready enough to face the further step of your life.
Anyway, life is full of choices. We can choose whether we would like to live forever in hell-like situation, or we can raise ourselves up and do our best for the better life. All you have to do is identify, what you really want in this life?? Once you've identified who you want
to be, and what you want to do and have, just look at the
obstacles you perceive to be in your way of accomplishing those things. Although it may appear as if the roadblocks are
real, tangible things (time, availability, money, ability, etc), most
of the problem is an issue of perception and belief.
Nine times out
of ten, it has to do with fear. Where there's
fear, there's stagnation. Somehow when you transform your beliefs,
what was once an obstacle, becomes doable. New beliefs can allow you
to see your way around or through the obstacle. You may say that I am a "sok tahu" kind of person who tell everybody to do this and that, but for me personally, I've enough, I am done will all those tears and anger, I don't want to continue live that way, focusing in to something that hurt you, will hurt you even more. I'll do my best to stop complain, it makes me kufur, it's tiring me, and it's also tiring my best friends. Now I believe, that I am the one who determine what kind of person I want to be.
I prefer to be a positive happy person, how about you??
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